Tami Time: Struggling With Romantic Connections

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Every week I deal with questions from readers and try to help them resolve their issues by drawing a tarot card and reading what it means for them. If you would like to submit your question to me, email me at TamiTime@7thSensePsychics.com.

This week of Valentine’s Day in Tami Time, we hear from Candace, Jwandalyn, Cynthia, Danielle, Kathleen, Kimberly, Talia and Alana. Each woman is struggling in questionable romantic connections.

“Im wondering if the man I am with right now is my future? I feel but could be wrong hes just not into me. His words say one thing, but his actions say another. Im very confused and I need to know if Im wasting my time. I love him, but I also dont want to stay if there are things going on behind my back. As much as I sound paranoid, he has givin me alot of reason to feel that way. I just dont want to spend time investing into this if its not where I should be. Weve got 7 years into this already.” – Candace

Hon, this man’s actions will speak far more truth than his words. I am also seeing through the Four of Pentacles that there are things about him and your shared connection that you are overlooking either consciously or subconsciously in an effort to protect yourself. I am very sorry, but I am seeing that you need to do a very serious reevaluation of your situation and make some tough decisions.

“I’ve been taking to this guy for a year and 5 months… He is currently incarcerated and he is at work release… I’ve never been to see him period but been talking on the phone and texting each other on the phone… When I ask for a visit he tells me he’s on restriction and i feel that he isn’t being honest with me… To be honest i feel like i have made a terrible mistake to have started talking to him to begin with to be honest…. And I’m having mixed feelings about the whole situation to the point i want to walk away… I know my mind is not fooling me” – Jwandalyn

The reversed Nine of Cups says that you are certainly right to have doubts, Jwandalyn. I am sorry, but this person is not being at all honest with you, probably not even about his own name. I do hope that you have not (and do not) provide him with any money, gift cards, cell phone, etc. Please, be careful with this person.

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“Hello. My name is Cynthia. I’ve been dating a guy for 1 yr now. He does not communicate very much with me. When I ask him if he is seeing other women he says it gets him mad but will not answer my question. It took me 7 yrs to get over my ex. I finnally got up enough guts to try again and I really love this guy I’m with. I’m afraid to get my heart broken again. Where both Gemini he’s 2 yrs younger then me. When he and I do get together, it’s fabulous. I just don’t see much of him and it seems fishy to me. Could you please give me a heads up if I should stay with him? Thank you for your time.” – Cynthia

The Hermit, reversed, warns about letting your insecurities get the best of you, hon. I am seeing that issues of infidelity, either perceived or actual, have plagued this guy in the past. That is why he is defensive when you bring it up. But it looks as though he is being honest with you now.

“Hi Tami, I’ve been with my boyfriend for 7 years and the last 4 years have been absolutely terrible, he accuses me every day of cheating he literally comes up with the craziest things. So while he accuses me he does things that he knows would hurt me in some way, he even tells me that he has been with other women then says he just lied to hurt me, I dont know what to believe anymore. Can you please tell me if he has been with other woman or does he really say those things just to hurt me?” – Danielle

There is an old saying that behind each lie is some degree of truth, Danielle. While he does say and do these things to intentionally hurt you, he also speaks his truth when confessing his sins. Him saying these things is outright manipulation. I am getting that he has cheated on you at least once since you have been together, hon. Strength encourages you to take control of this situation and your life. Command respect from your partner and demand honesty.

“Will my present relationship ever bring me what I need physically and emotionally?” – Kimberly

Kimberly, the reversed Seven of Pentacles tells me that this particular relationship has gone as far as it will go. I do not sense or foresee your current partner ever being all that you desire, but more importantly, that you need.

“Should I move on from my baby’s Daddy just expect only friendship from him” – Talia

The Magician speaks of your baby’s father wielding unjust power over you. I am seeing that he gives you just enough time and attention to keep you hanging on holding out hope for something more. That will not ever happen, hon. I am sorry. He likes having that control over you and does not want to see you let go and move on. But you need to do just that. Move on.