Tami Time: Psychic Tamara answers your questions
Every week I deal with questions from readers and try to help them resolve their issues by drawing a tarot card and reading what it means for them. If you would like to submit your question to me, email me at TamiTime@7thSensePsychics.com.
Two of the most difficult things we all must deal with as individuals are the death of a loved one and moving on from broken personal connections. Gail and Sandy are each dealing with the loss of significant men to death while Kay and Lakevia are working through some romantic relationship concerns.
“I find myself being very sad. I have been with a man for the last 6 months, who has just stopped messaging me. He was constantly telling me he wasn’t ready for a relationship, and about a month ago, we stopped “hanging out”. About 10 days after that, he contacted me, because he wanted to be with me again. I was honest with him and told him I needed more, but that I wasn’t in a hurry. Things were going really well, and I felt like he was trying, and then he brought up the “relationship” topic again. He won’t contact me now and I haven’t seen him in almost 2 weeks. I was finally healed from a bad marriage, and I let this man in to my heart…. now, I am very sad…. do you see any light at the end of the tunnel for us?” – Kay
I am very sorry, Kay, but this shared romantic connection is just not to be. You even wrote that he was constantly telling you he wasn’t ready for a relationship. The Chariot, reversed, came up only confirming that nothing of significance will ever develop between you and this man. One of the most basic meanings behind this card is a lack of shared desires or intent. It truly pains me to tell you that he only came back for the physical connection. Please let him go and try to move on as there is someone much better suited to you coming along shortly into the new year.
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“My husband passed 4 yrs ago August. Is it ok to put that out of my life and move forward without toxic reminders following me to the next chapter of my life?” – Gail
Gail, I first want to express my sympathy for the loss of your husband.
I also want to remind you of a portion of the traditional wedding vows, “til death us do part.” Oddly enough, the card that came up for you was reversed Death which is urging you to move forward and make a new life for yourself with a new partner.
Among the indications of this card are personal transformation and letting go of the past. I do feel strongly that you will be able to move forward without any toxic or negative issues. Your husband wants you to be happy and not alone. You also deserve to make a new life for yourself, hon.
“It took years I’m finally there I’ve collected my heart ♥️I’m happy and Loved and in love? We are separated why is my husband still resentful towards me after all this time? He got what he wanted” – Lakevia
Hon, as the old saying goes, “We always want what we cannot have.” Although he doesn’t want you back himself, he does not want to see you happy with someone else either.
The Ten of Swords turned up for your situation which speaks of painful endings, loss and betrayal. Your husband feels cheated in that you promised each other you would always be together and now you are not. Even though it may have been his idea to part ways, he still feels cheated in some way.
Sadly, right now he is just a bitter, resentful individual. You need to greatly limit your interactions with him. If you have shared children, consider utilizing an agreed upon third party to facilitate the exchanges for visitation. If you absolutely must talk with him, do not engage if he tries to bait you. Keep anything you say to him as short as possible and say only what is necessary.
“My father died a year ago. An I need him to know how much I loved him me an him was not speaking at the time of his death an I want to tell him how sorry I an for not make a admenze with him” – Sandy
Hon, I am so terribly sorry for you losing your father. I know how badly you must be hurting and sadly, some losses are much harder to learn to deal with.
The King of Swords, reversed, came up speaking of your core being/spirit. Through this, I see that your father knows what is in your heart, Sandy. He hears you when you talk to him and he loves the sound of your voice. He is fully aware of the pain and regret you are feeling.
Keep talking aloud to him but stop apologizing. Talk about the good times and the happy memories you carry of him.
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