Tami Time: Women at a Crossroads in Love

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Every week I deal with questions from readers and try to help them resolve their issues by drawing a tarot card and reading what it means for them. If you would like to submit your question to me, email me at TamiTime@7thSensePsychics.com.

This week, despite being married for 20 years, Darleen misses experiencing real love and affection, Beth is struggling greatly in so many areas of her life, Susan seeks a godly man with whom to share her life and Michelle is hurting greatly over how to save her romantic relationship or if it is even worth saving.

“Hello Tami,
Hope you are well!! I have a question for you and I hope that you can help me out! ?
I have been married for 20 years this year. I am not in love with my husband anymore but we are good friends and get along okay. We do not have a physical/affectionate relationship anymore and I miss this so much in my life. I have wanted to leave but I have 3 kids and can’t seem to do it. I do have a good life but am really missing love and affection. Do you see this marriage continuing or will we split, and if we split, will I meet someone else that will make me happy?
Kindly,” – Darleen

Coming up for you today, Darleen, was reversed King of Cups which talks of your inner feelings and being true to yourself.

Your current marriage could last the rest of your life as your husband is quite content with things just as they are right now. However, you will never have a genuine smile on your face and your unhappiness will grow into a deep depression, hon. If you choose to stay with him, you need to find something to help you discover true happiness such as a hobby, job or solid circle of friends. Something outside of your marriage and family as your children will eventually grow up and not need you quite as much.

If you choose to leave, there will be someone new within 17 months.

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“I am at a crossroads on life, love and money. My life is swirling with my son so sick, I don’t trust men I meet and don’t know how or if any are they right one, due to trust issues and money has seemed to be more of a problem with staking bills everyday.

Thank you for your help.” – Beth W

With the Page of Cups, reversed, coming up for you today, hon, it is being stressed that you need to make some major changes in your thought process as you are unknowingly making your situation. Please understand I am saying “unknowingly” as I sense way strong that you desperately WANT to make these changes, but your current mental state is only working against you.

Are you familiar with the law of attraction, hon? We literally create that which we think. There are studies to prove this. If you are constantly thinking about all of the bills you cannot pay, you are unknowingly drawing more and bigger bills into your life. If you have Netflix, please watch “The Secret”. It is an old film, but so blasted awesome and it seriously makes so very much sense.

I literally rely on the law of attraction in every single aspect of my own life and have seen miracles worked not only in my life, but in the lives of every person whom I have counseled on implementing the practice in their lives. There may be other streaming services that have it and it is in book form, as well, both hard copy and digital.

It is being strongly expressed to me that by completely implementing the positive effort of the law of attraction and totally reworking your entire thought process, you will begin to see some positive changes within only about four or five weeks, hon.

This card also indicates strongly that you have been doubting your own gut intuition. Learn to trust in that small “knowing” you have.

“Hi my name is Susan. I’m wondering if I will ever meet a good godly man that I will spend my life with?” – Susan

Hon, the reversed Devil tells me that you are holding yourself back with a rather limited thought process and repeating old behaviors. I am also seeing through this card that you are sometimes a bit too quick to dismiss a potential romantic partner for rather insignificant reasons. You do this due to a lack of self-worth but more so out of fear.

You want this life so very much but fear so strongly never finding it, thus you self-sabatoge your efforts.

Change things up and let go of the fear and just give thanks for having the exact life and life partner that you desire. Be much more highly selective as to the places you go and the people with whom you spend your time. Once you step out and make some changes, I am seeing that your efforts will pay off in only about five months.

You will have the man and partner that you most desire, hon. Hold on to that and do not allow yourself to get ahead of the process and let go of the anxiety.

“Hello Tami,

I am 35 years old and in a relationship with my partner for going on 10 years now.
We’ve lived together for almost 7 years and 3 years ago we purchased our first home together.

Since the purchase of our new home we’ve encountered some obstacles that have made me questions whether or not we are in fact ‘meant to be’ –

We’ve argued over money and how and where it is spent. We’ve argued over the upkeep of our large home. There was infidelity on my part that I immediately confessed to and he took very hard.

I love this man but things have reached a terrible low and I am unsure if this is a storm that we are capable of weathering or if it is time for me to move on. He has reached the point where he feels wronged by me, betrayed and can no longer trust me. He has asked me to ‘fix’ my mistakes and save our relationship and I’m afraid I do not know what that means completely.

I have always been the one who was wronged and had to forgive. Now I am in a position where I am the one who needs to seek forgiveness. What do I do? Am I doing the right thing by staying? Are we going to make it through this? Will he be the man that I marry and start a family with?

Please help me!” – *Michelle*

One of the most basic meanings of the reversed Ten of Cups, the card that came up for you, is greatly struggling romantic relationships due mainly to different values and desires for the future. This card also speaks loudly of broken down lines of communication and being completely disconnected from each other.

Your relationship could certainly be saved, but it will take your partner allowing himself to completely open up and work WITH you to “fix” things. You cannot fix the relationship on your own, hon. Please do not try to take on that whole responsibility.

Based on his energies at this moment, I do not see him ever coming around and offering you any level of forgiveness, hon. I am sorry. I suggest you set a time line and give it your all to work with him, but do not spend an indefinite amount of time and waste your life.